Do Not Commit To Anyone

Yes, This is the law of power number 20, “Do Not Commit To Anyone. I don’t know why is this law sounds like that. Whom You shpul commit to? Hei, si a strange law. But see this story the Observance of the Law:

Queen Elizabeth I managed to avoid the trap of marriage and war, by dangling the possibility of marriage to all who courted her. She forged alliances with the countries these suitors came from, all for the benefit of England. By keeping her independence above all, Elizabeth protected her power and made herself an object of worship.

We can take these wisdom from this law:

By refusing to commit, but allowing yourself to be courted, you become powerful because you are ungraspable.
As your reputation for independence grows, more people will desire you and want to conquer you.
Politely decline. You cannot allow yourself to feel obligated to anyone.
Seek promises from both sides, so no matter what the outcome of an election or battle, your position is secure.
Observe quarreling parties and stay neutral but supportive to both sides. Gain power as a mediator.
You may commit to one to prove you are capable of attachment, but be emotionally uninvolved. Preserve the unspoken option of being able to leave anytime and reclaim your freedom. The friends you made while being courted will help you jump ship.

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